The following list can aid in the adjustment to a nursing facility and to make life in the facility more pleasant. It is suggested that a move to a nursing facility be treated as any move to a new home. Planning ahead and discussing the move with a loved one is always recommended.

1. Be honest with the resident and the facility staff.
2. Don't be afraid to ask questions, but be sure and ask the appropriate person.
3. Be friendly and helpful.
4. Allow the resident to take as many of their personal belongings as possible.
5. Check to make sure the resident has all the personal items they may need, i.e., toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant etc.
6. Check to make sure the resident has an adequate supply of appropriate clothing and shoes.
7. When bringing in food items remember to do two things first; check with the charge nurse regarding the resident's diet and bring them in sealed containers, if they are to be left in the room.
8. Visit regularly. Don't make promises you cannot keep or don't make excuses when you are unable to visit, be honest with your loved one.
9. Bring family pictures so he/she can keep up and really feel a part of the family happenings They also like to be able to brag on their family to staff and visitors. They take great pride in their loved ones and their accomplishments.
10. Drop in unscheduled; people often love surprise visits.
11. Dine at the nursing facility with a loved one, they will love it.
12. Encourage and allow him/her to do as much for themselves as possible.
13. Get to know other residents and family members, encourage your loved one to make friends in the facility.
14. Participate and/or assist with nursing center activities - bingo, dances, parties, etc.
15. Have parties at the nursing center or in your own home for your elderly relative/friend to celebrate special occasions. The facility Activity Director will be more than happy to assist with your plans.
16. If possible, take your relative/friend on outings. But, don't be disappointed if they refuse, many residents become very secure in their new environment and don't like to leave.
17. Encourage other family members, friends and church members to visit.
18. Don't try to protect your elderly relative/friend from family happenings, problems, etc. - rather let him/her help.
19. Be ready to understand and support your relative if depression does occur initially, this is very common but can be overcome.
20. If you have a concern, please let the facility Administrator or Director of Nurses know. There goal is to look out for you or your loved one's best interest. They need and want your input and stand ready to correct any concern you may have.
21. Staff are always striving to please and make your loved ones stay a pleasant one. If you would like to bring a token of your appreciation, please bring something that can be shared by all. Employees are not allowed to accept individual gifts or tips.
22. Guilt is a common feeling among family members. Remember you are only doing what is in the best interest of your loved one.
23. Keep a sense of humor.

Items Residents want/need in a Nursing Facility

1. Clothes. Clothes should be comfortable, easy to put on and take off, and ones that will withstand frequent washing and require little or no ironing.
2. Laundry. The family can choose to do the residents own personal laundry. If the family chooses to do the resident personal laundry, they will need to provide a covered hamper for collection of soiled laundry and all clothing items should be marked with a permanent laundry marker.
3. Flowers and Plants. Residents enjoy flowers and plants. All flowers and plants should be free of insects.
4. Radio, TV, or Personal Telephone. Most residents will enjoy having their own personal radio and/or Television for their personal enjoyment. Some residents and family members choose to have telephone installed in the resident room. Check with the facility Administrator on their policy for installation and charges.
5. Personal Bed Linen / Curtains. The resident may wish to have their own supply of bed linen or bedspread. Each item will need to be marked with their name. Any personal curtains used in the room must be approved by the Administrator so they can be treated for flame retardency.

Items Residents don't need in a Nursing Facility

1. Over the Counter Medications and/or Ointments. All medications, including over the counter meditations must be ordered by the attending physician. Examples include, but are not limited to: cough drops, cough syrup, Tylenol, aspirin, etc.
2. Razor Blades, Matches, Lighters, Lighter fluid, Flammable Aerosols and Extension Cords, Octopus Electric Plugs or Electric Heaters. Due to strict fire protection codes, these items are not permitted in the residents room.
3. Electric Blankets, Irons, Heating Pads, or Small Rugs. These items are considered safety hazards.
4. Valuables. It is recommend that no items of value be left in the residents room.
5. Plastic Wastebaskets. Nursing facilities supply flame resistant ones in compliance with fire codes.